I'm so sorry to hear that. :( What I thought could be implantation bleeding is now most likely turning into AF. Day 5 of spotting. Day 11 post iui, isn't looking good for me as well.
Sorry to hear that Elliejo. FX it's not over for you this month Mrg. BFN for me and AF starting too so we are out this afternoon. We will need to talk tonight and decide what our next move is. I would like to try again in December, but we might decide to wait until January rather than traveling during the TWW with a trip to the UK for Christmas on the horizon.
I'm rooting for everyone else to have their BFPs, lets have some more good results joining lyssy!!
Sorry to hear so many BFN. So happy for those with BFP. I am hoping if it did not happen for Thanksgiving we can all have Christmas miracles. Enjoy your weekend ladies.
I'm sorry also. I took at home test which came back negative. Im pretty sure AF is here, not too heavy but heavy enough. Probably won't try again until January, with Xmas being so expensive. Hope all is well with everyone and I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving
Oh no! With all of our company gone, I came on bright and early this morning hoping to see everyone's good news! I am so sorry Julie, Elliejo, and Mrg92. I really thought this was going to be the month of a bunch of BFPs! I understand how difficult it is, but try your best to stay positive! It will happen!!!
Went to the hospital yesterday for abnormal bleeding. They couldn't find anything wrong but it's very very abnormal bleeding for me. My OBO said to still test Monday, which will be the 14th day mark. I just don't see me getting a BFP with all this going on, but for some reason they still have hope.
Hi ladies- Mrg, I am really sorry about the bleeding. I hope you're okay, even if it's not a BFP this month for you.
Elliejo I'm sorry you got a BFN too:(
Lyssy I'm so excited for you!! What wonderful news:)
I was very excited bc AF was late (supposed to come Fri) but I read progesterone can be the culprit. I took a PT yesterday (14dpiui) and it said BFN.
This is very emotionally exhausting. Esp bc I really read into missing my AF. I feel like I'm living life on auto pilot and don't want to do that anymore...keeping myself busy going forward.
Welcome bonobo! The wait can be excruciating! Fingers crossed you are able to stay sane! Best bet, keep busy and "try" not to obsess about it! Good luck for a BFP!
Sorry for all the BFNs - hope all is well Mrg. Maybe you had a CP? I had one in Sept and my bleeding was so abnormal and awful, if I hadn't realized it was a CP I probably would have thought I was dying!!
Livvy - maybe you will just get a late positive, fingers crossed for you! Its amazing how this process messes up our cycles!
Welcome Bonobo - I hope the TWW flies by for you!
Rebecca - it must be nearly time to test? I'm rooting for you so hard. This has to be your month!
We are looking at waiting until January, we figure it would be nice to relax for Christmas and New Year and totally forget the ttc process until the new year.
The bleeding just completely stopped. With no easing up, no spotting after, just vanished. Took a HPT which came back with an extremely faint positive. Will test again in a few hrs.
I'm so sorry Livvy. I know how you feel. This was my 1st IUI and I did clomid and trigger shot. my insurance will not pay a penny. Doc said sounds like I had an early miscarriage. Going for blood work tomorrow :(
So sorry Mrg, Sending positive thoughts for your next round. Are you trying again this month?
I know what you mean Livvy. Sorry about your BFN, I have not used clomid yet but I do feel like we have wasted so much money on nothing as our RE doesn't even take insurance. Sometimes it is hard to remain positive when every month is a bust.
Baby dust to everyone still waiting for their results.
We will start to process again @ the end of the month since that's when AF arrives. So it everything goes okay my next iui will be mid January. How are you doing prbs?
We are aiming for January also, thanks Mrg. I figure December is just so expensive with so much travel for us as our family is spread out. We should be TWW buddies again in the new year.
Sounds good, hopefully the new year will start off good with BFP for us. I did blood work today, said they will call me tomorrow to let me know if it was for sure a m/c. What donor are you using?
We are using 14156. We just moved to him after discovering our original donor carried a chromosome abnormality which caused us to change although it was not likely to impact any future children.
I do hope the new year brings us BFPs, this was my 4th iui and I'm ready for it to be over!! This time I know our timing was off though, and the first time we had a BFP with a miscarriage.
Rebecca - I hope your absence is because you are celebrating a BFP! Thinking of you and hoping all is well.
Wow, I couldn't imagine going thru it 4 times. I have donor 14221. He has 22 million with 56% mobility. I went for blood work yesterday but still haven't heard any news. My name is Maranda btw
Hi all! No celebrating yet. Blood work tomorrow afternoon and results on Friday. Haven't tested this time, so don't know what to expect. One minute I feel sure I am preggo, the next I am convinced I am not. This waiting really plays tricks on your mind! Just trying to keep busy decorating and wrapping presents....plus chasing DD around. I will let you know what I hear on Friday!
Another negative month for us. Pretty bummed and dreading selecting a new donor, as we are out of the donor we used for DD. Trying to figure if timing will work for us to try again in December...hoping so!
Hoping for BFPs for all of us the next time around!
Oh no, Rebecca. I'm so sorry, I really thought this would be your month. I'm so bummed for you, especially with having to go down the route of the new donor. I hope you pick one easily, at least you have the weekend to ponder over profiles.
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What I thought could be implantation bleeding is now most likely turning into AF. Day 5 of spotting. Day 11 post iui, isn't looking good for me as well.
FX it's not over for you this month Mrg.
BFN for me and AF starting too so we are out this afternoon. We will need to talk tonight and decide what our next move is. I would like to try again in December, but we might decide to wait until January rather than traveling during the TWW with a trip to the UK for Christmas on the horizon.
I'm rooting for everyone else to have their BFPs, lets have some more good results joining lyssy!!
Elliejo I'm sorry you got a BFN too:(
Lyssy I'm so excited for you!! What wonderful news:)
I was very excited bc AF was late (supposed to come Fri) but I read progesterone can be the culprit. I took a PT yesterday (14dpiui) and it said BFN.
This is very emotionally exhausting. Esp bc I really read into missing my AF. I feel like I'm living life on auto pilot and don't want to do that anymore...keeping myself busy going forward.
Blood test tomorrow AM.
Hang in there everyone.
Livvy - maybe you will just get a late positive, fingers crossed for you!
Its amazing how this process messes up our cycles!
Welcome Bonobo - I hope the TWW flies by for you!
Rebecca - it must be nearly time to test? I'm rooting for you so hard. This has to be your month!
We are looking at waiting until January, we figure it would be nice to relax for Christmas and New Year and totally forget the ttc process until the new year.
I know what you mean Livvy. Sorry about your BFN, I have not used clomid yet but I do feel like we have wasted so much money on nothing as our RE doesn't even take insurance. Sometimes it is hard to remain positive when every month is a bust.
Baby dust to everyone still waiting for their results.
I do hope the new year brings us BFPs, this was my 4th iui and I'm ready for it to be over!! This time I know our timing was off though, and the first time we had a BFP with a miscarriage.
Rebecca - I hope your absence is because you are celebrating a BFP! Thinking of you and hoping all is well.
Hoping for BFPs for all of us the next time around!
I hope you pick one easily, at least you have the weekend to ponder over profiles.