Help with the holidays
teachertracys
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hi everyone-
is it just me- or does anyone else going through this process feel so sad during the holidays? the last few years i have not participated in my family's holiday activities b/c i am just so sad. to me the holidays ARE kids and family. while i have an immediate family it's not the same as having your own. i feel bad about it but i know how i am and how i feel and i don't want to ruin the day for everyone else. how can i cope? any ideas?
is it just me- or does anyone else going through this process feel so sad during the holidays? the last few years i have not participated in my family's holiday activities b/c i am just so sad. to me the holidays ARE kids and family. while i have an immediate family it's not the same as having your own. i feel bad about it but i know how i am and how i feel and i don't want to ruin the day for everyone else. how can i cope? any ideas?
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I was with my ex-boyfriend for 17 years. (don't judge, please!! LOL)
When we first broke up, I was very worried about being alone at the holidays.
But, I quickly realized I was NOT alone. I really, really love chatting with my cousins that I only see 1 or 2X per year. I usually play games with the kids (being a teacher, that is easy and natural for me). I have actually come to LOVE holiday time. I am very excited because now I have a 6 month old niece, and she will make it even more fun.
If you look at the holidays differently - more as a time to catch up with people - you'll be amazed at home much fun they are. Trust me - people want to be with you!
:-)