Single lesbian

K WaltonK Walton Posts: 28
in LGBTQ+ Couples
Hey everyone,
I'am a single lesbian considering ICI for the first time . I am 40 yrs. old . I would love to start a family ! Has anyone in my age group tried ICI with any success ? Any info would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Kimbery Walton

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  • mundianamundiana Posts: 42
    Hi Kimberly-

    I am 37 yrs old and have been trying since August 2008. All of my attempts were IUI, the 1st 6 were with my ob/gyn and the last 2 have been with a RE (reproductive endicronologist). All were with meds (clomid for 1-7 and shots on #8). If I had known how tough it would have been back in August I would have gone full force with injectibles and IUI from day one. It would have saved me a lot of heartache, disappointment and money. We are at such a disadvantage as women trying to conceive on our own, the ICI deposits the sperm further away from where it needs to be and the sperm has so much farther to swim, the IUI at least gets the sperm to where the follicles will be released. Not so much work for the sperm. It is really your preference though on what you are comfortable with, check with your insurance some are covering the procedures. BTW we are 5 weeks pregnant now and will be 38 when the baby arrives (if all goes well). Good luck and let me know if you have any questions.

    Diana
  • K WaltonK Walton Posts: 28
    Hi Diana,

    Congratulations ! Thank you for all the info. I tried getting pregnant a few yrs ago doing IUI 's with my obgyn . I was in a relationship but it was really stressful and my partner and I fall apart . So now I'm ready to try again , not sure which procedure i'll use, leaning towards IUI again... Thanks again , good luck !!

    Sincerely,
    Kimberly
  • CatchavezCatchavez Posts: 40
    HI K
    Although I'm not specifically in your situation, I just want you to know that my partner and I were moved by your post here. I am 34 yo but my partner is 51 yo. I think its terrific you're going after your wishes for a family! Wanted to wish you much luck and success and tell you to just keep the stress levels low and stay positive always, the universe will take care of the rest.
  • 2009_Ky's MoM_2009_Ky's MoM_ Posts: 10
    I am 40 also,,and ttc...I did IUI's 2x Feb and MArch with donor 3591,,,no success,,,,I have a male donor in my city now,,,who I pay just as I would the cryobank,,,I called hime 3x for inseminations this cycle (April...one blanket price all all 3....500.00) and I an 4DPO,,,too early to test but i FEEL SO Pregnant, queasy, and tired,,,this can happen before implsntation,,, so I took a test and it came out positive then faded,,,I really think i am pregnant,,,I'll keep you updated...But,,,I really think the chances are cut more than 1/4 when using such a small amount of frozen semen at age 40....
  • 2009_Ky's MoM_2009_Ky's MoM_ Posts: 10
    OOps,,I mdeant I did ICI not IUI,,,and I am also single.
  • K WaltonK Walton Posts: 28
    Thanks everyone,
    I'm thinking I'll try inseminating in June or July . So I have plenty of time to do a little more research and to speak with my Dr. about my options . Good luck Ky, best wishes !!
  • deblutedeblute Posts: 43
    We tried ICI 8 different cycles with no luck however with our first IUI we got our BFP and are now 9 weeks along!!!
  • K WaltonK Walton Posts: 28
    Thanks Deblute,

    I've always thought that I stopped trying too soon . I tried 4 iui's when I was 37. Last one with meds . It was so emotional and draining. I'm at a much better place now in my life and so excited about trying again !! Thanks for all the encouragement and advice . Good luck , best wishes !! p.s. please keep me posted on your journey..


    Kimberly
  • heidiwheidiw Posts: 2
    I'm trying to find the single lesbian who has had twins with 11461. Contact me at ellenhw1967@yahoo.com if you are she!
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