When is enough enough?
bookfool
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There is no answer for when to stop trying, but I'm wondering if other women out there want to share their stories. I'm (just turned) 40 and took a while to find the person with whom I wanted to start a family. Once we got together we fast-tracked the baby stuff because of my "advanced" age. We tried for 5 months with a known donor, and have recently tried 3 IUIs with no success.
As we continued down the road of my non-pregnancies, my partner, who is 5 years younger, and I made the decision that we could both try simultaneously. We want our family, and the longer it was taking me, the harder it was going to be for her to pregnant if we stuck with the initial plan (she would wait until I delivered to start trying).
My doctor wants me to keep going with Clomid and IUIs for 6 cycles. I feel like the odds are against me. We've talked about IVF with my eggs, IVF with my partner's eggs. (Should mention that we're both teachers in a state with no IVF insurance support.) Is it too soon to talk about IVF? We just want our family, and I worry that the with each time I fart around with IUI I'm just that much further away from a baby.
Where are you all with this?
As we continued down the road of my non-pregnancies, my partner, who is 5 years younger, and I made the decision that we could both try simultaneously. We want our family, and the longer it was taking me, the harder it was going to be for her to pregnant if we stuck with the initial plan (she would wait until I delivered to start trying).
My doctor wants me to keep going with Clomid and IUIs for 6 cycles. I feel like the odds are against me. We've talked about IVF with my eggs, IVF with my partner's eggs. (Should mention that we're both teachers in a state with no IVF insurance support.) Is it too soon to talk about IVF? We just want our family, and I worry that the with each time I fart around with IUI I'm just that much further away from a baby.
Where are you all with this?
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My wife and I are just getting started, so I'm not in the same place as you two emotionally, but I have faith in the future of your family! Sending you prayers and baby dust!