Hi! This is my first post. My DH and I are dealing with MFI and are doing our first IUI with DS next month. We are having a lot of trouble choosing a donor. We want him to look as much like my DH as possible. My DH is a red head so our options are a bit limited. I guess we are stuck on not just the donor but the family too. We really like this one donor but his mother has a medium complexion with brown hair and his father has a dark complexion with black hair. My FIL has a fair complexion with blonde hair. I have a fair complexion as well. We want the child to look as much like my DH but I worry that if we were to choose that donor that he/she would get genetics from the donors father and it would be very clear that he is not my DH's child. Maybe I'm over thinking / over analyzing. Maybe it's not as important to other people for the child to look so much like their partner...Help!!!