To tell or not to tell ...

Ms M404

I have met a guy and we like each other. We are about to start dating. So my question is, do I tell him I am trying to get preggers with a donor. Or do I keep it to my self until I see how it goes with him? And if I do thell him, then when?

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hopefulheather

I would say get to know him at least for a few dates before you tell him. I told someone I was seeing at the beginning of the summer and his reason for breaking it off was feeling pressured about the baby thing. Even though he knew I was planning on doing it alone from the beginning.

Now he's gone and I'm pregnant with donor sperm though so things worked out for me.