Neg HPT......no AF.........confused and frustrated!!

AngelaAngela Posts: 39
in LGBTQ+ Couples
Ok, I have had so many of the symptoms of sore breast, bloated tummy, headaches, and very tired all the time but yet do not sleep well at night. I just thought for sure that this morning when I took my HPT that it would be pos and when I saw the neg, it was very frustrating and confusing. Does anyone have advice or some kind of hope to share with me???

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  • HazeleyesHazeleyes Posts: 73
    Hey Angela, Sorry to hear you were Neg. Last month i was in the same situation .One of the ladies had to be tested the same week i was going to get my results.She got a BFP and I got a Neg. I really didnt want to read her post and i was sad,angry and loosing the faith. Please listen to me. Don't be sad or loose the faith. I'm not christian, but i know one thing for sure i'm a firm beliver that if you have the faith and don't give up it will happen. This time around was not the time there is always a reason for everything. This is an overwelming, frustrated and many of us have defeated it you will too.. I'm here for you please keep your head up stand strong and leave the past, because thats not going to help you move on. When you try again try not to think about your 2ww i know its hard, but try an keep yourself busy and keep telling yourself if its meant to be it wl happen.Me and my partner did just that an god made our dream come true. I'm here for you Baby dust to you from the bottom of our hearts........
  • AngelaAngela Posts: 39
    thank you Hazeleyes...........I really appreciate your words of faith........I am still waiting on either a pos HPT or AF........neither has let me know anything...lol. I still have the faith that I will be blessed with my BFP and who knows, maybe I am just one of those women that take forever to show positive on a HPT..........one can hope anyways, I am still having ALL the symptoms so there is still that small ounce of hope. I will keep you posted.

    Again.......congrats on your BFP!!! I am so happy for you guys!!!! Keep me updated on how things are going.....you can email me at angie24sport@aol.com if you would like!

    Take care and good luck!
  • ualtiggerualtigger Posts: 589
    IT AIN'T OVER UNTIL THE HEIFER SHOWS!! That's the motto to live by here because it's true. I will know if I have by this time tomorrow. It's frustrating but the main thing is NOT to give up... keep believing that it WILL happen.

    Keep your head up hon... it's NOT over yet.
  • AngelaAngela Posts: 39
    lol thank you ualtigger!!!! I needed that! I refuse to give up and still am trying to remain positive here and hopefully tomorrow will bring a new HPT and possibly a positive at that! I will keep you posted.
  • stephiemichelestephiemichele Posts: 6
    Angela,

    I am in the same boat. My wife and i did out first ICI on May 7th at home. I have been having the same symptoms as you and yet i got a negative on my HPT, and AF was supposed to be here on Sunday!! I still have hope like you that i am just one of those girls that takes long to show a positive too!!! If AF isnt here by Friday my wife and i are going to get a pregnancy test done at my doctor!

    I wish you all the luck and i will keep my finger crossed for you!!!!
  • ualtiggerualtigger Posts: 589
    Stephie: Repeat after me: IT AIN'T OVER UNTIL THE HEIFER SHOWS!!
  • HazeleyesHazeleyes Posts: 73
    Angela, I'm crossing my finger for you and lots of baby dust to you and the rest of the ladies i will keep you posted...Ualtigger lol that is so true....Stephiemichele hang in there we all be cheering together...Blowing baby dust to you all!
  • AngelaAngela Posts: 39
    ok, well went today to take the blood test, so we will know by tomorrow if we are or are not pregnant. I am still having the symptoms as above and have actually started having more signs...........so we shall see. I will let you guys know. Sending baby dust all around to all of us TTC!!!!!!!!
  • stephiemichelestephiemichele Posts: 6
    Thanks Ualtigger!!

    Angela..... I will keep you in my thoughts and hope to see you report a BFP!!!! Best of luck!!!
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