TWW aka The Worst Wait

Hi Ladies! First Time Poster here. This TWW is killing me! DP and I did Reciprocal IVF –3dT (Her Retrieval was 12/14 and the transfer to me was 12/17). I am 42 years of age and she is 35. They retrieved 5 eggs, only one matured into an embryo (Grade 2). We were hoping to transfer 2. We knew going in our quality was low due to our FSH testing, Dr couldn’t figure out why so low. After testing and talking we chalked it down to it being hereditary – both of our moms experienced menopause in their early 40’s.

Our PT (blood test) is 12/30. We are both impatient and purchased a HPT last night. We did a digital HPT - BFN (9dp3dt). DP freaked out because she felt she didn’t read the instructions correctly for the digital and that’s why it was BFN. We did another HPT (traditional) first thing in the morning another BFN (10dp3dt). I am trying not to be discouraged as have heard many stories of BFP on the 12th or even 14th day. You just want it so bad and know you did everything you could have done! This was our first IVF, but feel like we waited so long we don’t have much time left to keep trying!

Thanks ladies… Just needed the vent! This is one emotional rollercoaster!
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