It's so hard to choose a donor. help.
I am struggling with selecting a donor. I have been looking for over 2 years and still haven't decided. I thought I found a good one, but he has no positive pregnancies listed in his profile yet. So I am scared to purchase. I don't know how people pick donors. It is so hard. I try to prioritize healthy genetics tests, over "looks", over intelligence.. and I find myself not being able to find the perfect donor. I keep reading that the perfect donor doesn't exist. I have tried looking at many different clinics and even asked a few known donors, but nothing has worked out so far. I find it paralyzing trying to choose a donor. How did you finally decide? What was your number 1 priority besides wanting a healthy baby?