Anxiously Waiting

SaydeShawntaSaydeShawnta Posts: 9
in Single Mothers by Choice
I am getting ready to place my 1st order. I have done all the research and prepared the best I can to this point but I find that as the the date get closer to placing my order I am getting more & more anxious! I know stressing out is not good. I am so worried that it might not work & then I have wasted the money I spent for nothing to have happened. Any suggestions to help calm the fears?

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  • gsalsagsalsa Posts: 31
    I totally understand, especially because we are on a budget and not sure when we can afford a second cycle if the 1st is not successful. We have decided to buy one at time as of now and trust the universe of what will be...will be. I'm getting chiro adjustments and massages throughout the whole process (which I already do) and hopefully this will help. Trying to be of service to others helps me with stress, fears and keeps the focus off of me. We'll see how it goes. Let the games begin...(i start injections tomorrow) Good luck to you!
  • gsalsagsalsa Posts: 31
    I totally understand, especially because we are on a budget and not sure when we can afford a second cycle if the 1st is not successful. We have decided to buy one at time as of now and trust the universe of what will be...will be. I'm getting chiro adjustments and massages throughout the whole process (which I already do) and hopefully this will help. Trying to be of service to others helps me with stress, fears and keeps the focus off of me. We'll see how it goes. Let the games begin...(i start injections tomorrow) Good luck to you!
  • SaydeShawntaSaydeShawnta Posts: 9
    gsalsa - Thanks for the response. Hope everything goes well for you & you are successful! I totally understand about the budget. I would much rather spend the money on the baby once he/she is in my tummy! I set down last night & started a journal which I think will help get it all out & hopefully reduce some of the stress. This is a huge undertaking mentally, emotionally as well as financially. Good luck! May God bless you & your future little one.
  • jwojakowskijwojakowski Posts: 2
    I had the same feeling when I started the process. I wanted a baby, but I would only be able to try a couple of times. I was annoyed that friends would tell me so and so had no issues getting pregnant and they were older than you. I wanted to say I have to pay for the sperm and they are getting to free, so they can try and try. I was lucky and it worked the first try. I have a beautiful set of twins. Do not worry well it will work or not. Just believe that it will work.
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